POINT QUALITY OF LIFE

Buti-POINT QUALITY OF LIFE
(Part 1)
In this life, we often get stuck with the emergence of curiosity and always respected and always wanted to be number one among the others, caught in a mistake interpreting the "essence of self-esteem that prices will rise if you have a lot of wealth, high position, facial beautiful, high education, so to have it all do not hesitate to do things in any way though it all at the expense of other, make others persecuted, or adverse side-lain.Cara way to make people self-esteem and will decrease loss of quality of life. To avoid that case I present the following items of quality of life for better quality of life.
Things - things that need to be aware of, noted, sought to build the quality of life.
1. "Quality of Life" to make life beautiful and passionate: to be peaceful and happy family; society becomes humane, and prosperous; nation become respectable and dignified.
2. "Quality of Life" should be developed early on, especially within the family and throughout life; pioneered the small things / simple undertaken with diligence; not be achieved with a shortcut.
3. Need:
- Know yourself
- Accept yourself
- Forgiving yourself
- Be yourself
- Mastering yourself
- Respect yourself
- Develop self
- Distribute yourself a "man of sesame".
4. Taking into account all facets of life as a whole and balanced, namely terms:
- Material
- Intellectual
- Emotional
- Cultural
- Social
- Mental
- Moral
- Spiritual
5. Can distinguish between:
- The principal and which do not
- The original / authentic and the fake / pseudo
- The important and urgent;
- The necessary and desirable;
- The fact / facts and an opinion;
- Activities and bustle.
6. Having a clear and definite attitude towards:
- Self-self as God's creation
- Fellow humans as brothers
- "The World" (nature, environment, society) as the persons responsible
- God's love unconditionally and without limit.
With a clear manner that is clear and certainly it can be calm and brave person to face any situation, also a state that is not certain.
7. Take responsibility and be seen in building a just society, peace, humane and dignified society with:
- Respect the life, dignity, martabatdan human rights by treating other people like himself.
- Think, act, speak and act according to conscience rather than taste.
- The upholding of truth, goodness, beauty, and freedom,
- Having the attention, understanding, selflessness and forgiveness
- Orderly and focused on personal and community life
- Fight backwardness, care for the weak and the outcast
- Maintain the preservation of the environment.
- Keep away from all of all that smells of violence, intimidation / terror, discrimination, bigotry and manipulation.
8. Inhibiting the development of "Quality of Life", among others:
- Low self-esteem; saw himself as self-negative
- Worry about penilaianorang against him as it is; like "prestige", "cosmetic"
- Fear; man "in case", "lest", then how "and not confident
- Pettiness stunt minds and hearts, which was revealed in egoism, arrogance and complacency.
- Laziness and not diligent.
9. Believe in the Creator, humans appreciate all of His creation, especially human beings are created in the "image".
10. Human value lies not in the ditimbunnya property or services / accomplishments he achieved, but on his own, on a very noble dignity.
11. Every human being deserves to be treated humanely, and the obligation to treat people humanely.
12. Life is a gift of God to be grateful, and interpreted as a call to continue the kindness and love of God to humanity.
13. Living with the noble purpose of making a meaningful life and lived with a tough, energetic excited and reliability.
14. Grateful living by maintaining, developing and using talents, kemaampuan, opportunity and time the grace of God to glorify God and to the welfare of / / the common good.
15. Talent can be developed if there is perseverance and confidence, and will wither if there is doubt, mudH boredom, laziness, complacency and feelings of inferiority.
16. Human life is only a moment people do not know when, where and how death came to pick up. So life should be lived with full responsibility, oriented in eternity, so that every moment ready to face death.
17. What gunananya man has everything he wants, such as health, wealth, rank, and so forth that were unprepared for the arrival of an unexpected death. Humans need to set the priority of the values ​​of life care.
18. Living with the importance of "Quality" is marked by simplicity, humility and
generosity, faithful attitude, fair, honest, alert, wise, open, free-free, strong, happy, be yourself, caring and understanding.
19. Living with the importance of "material", "achievement" resulted in spiritual poverty, the emptiness of life marked by greed, conscience bluntness, tension, frustration, anxiety, boredom and loneliness.
20. Life is not to accumulate wealth, achieve a high position or fame name, but, but to be a happy man, man who won the "successful life".
21. "Success of life" does not equal success studies, business, position and suskses apapapun. "Success of life gained by giving priority to" quality of life "," Success of life "marked by peace of mind, inner freedom and joy of life.
22. "Success" is not a successful life "should be grateful cultivated and only as a means to support the" successful life ", to glorify God and support the welfare and common good.
23. The happiness of life that define themselves not other people, situations, health, wealth rank, not the fulfillment of desire that brings feelings of pleasure / joy for a moment that is not the same as happiness of life.
24. People never too late to get peace of mind, inner freedom and joy of life, which is the fruit of faith in God's love for her participation.
25. People will feel the happiness when living in love, to love and be happy dikasihi.Untuk people do not need a lot of things.
26. Living in the love of making the will of God as a way of life; think, behave, speak and act based on love, life with attention, understanding and forgiveness.
27. Seeking truth and think properly; love kindness and to live according to conscience rather than according to taste; loves beauty and maintain harmony, neatness, cleanliness, create and enjoy beauty.
28. Have clarity of mind, probity, the sensitivity of conscience. Think, act, and behave positively.
29. Thinking about what is best and hope for what is best, without trapped into a perfectionist.
30. See, appreciate and develop the kindness, the beauty that exists in itself, sesame and that is around.
31. Having insight into the future, a broad view, does not think "black and white" without considering the existence of many different viewpoints.
32. Have a great soul is not stunted, easily offended, suspicious, jealous, indifferent and hard to forgive.
33. Have a responsibility, honest trustworthy, fair, loyal to fulfill the promise no matter how small.
34. Being the principal, not oportunitis "home safe / profitable", dare to make sacrifices in order to follow his conscience.
35. Dalm matter of principle there should be unity, in which case that is still open there is freedom, and in all things there must be love.
36. Implement any meaningful that the responsibility wholeheartedly, without any sense of joy keterpaka.
37. Any implement with thorough consideration can be accounted for either in a rational and moral, and always based on love.
38. Execute any need to consider the balance and harmony, prudence and diligence.
39. Implementing discretion unless "true-false", "good - evil", "useful not useful, is also" wise-unwise, "and not merely, went along, following the taste or hanyauntuk please people.
40. Regulation is only meaningful if anything is a means to achieving positive values; rules must be flexible, because only a flexible rules that can produce order.
41. What is important is not what we do, but how we do it, and why we do it, for what / who we are we are we've done.
42. Not all I ever do is important, but what is the meaning and wisdom of that I've ever worked for this moment.
43. Doing a lot with neglecting what should be done instead of rushing it, which brings saturation / boredom and disappointment. Activity is not the same with busyness.
44. Internalized as a call to take responsibility, not as a burden; then carried out with joy, rigid with excitement.
45. Humans can not do all that is good, but always able to do something good and here's what to do.
46. In doing something always been to not harm anyone in any way.
47. Do good to all people without trying to make everyone happy, because it makes everyone happy is impossible, and will only make everyone disappointed, including himself.
48. People who have self-esteem will appreciate and respect the fellow with the words said, attitudes, behaviors and well-mannered appearance.
49. Every human being has its own advantages and disadvantages. The surplus is received with gratitude, without being overbearing, and humbly accepted shortcomings without being inferior.
50. Everything good that we have is a gift of God to be thankful for and we use to glorify God and benefit others.




Edited by
T. Sutondo

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OPEN SECRET LOVE

OPEN SECRET LOVE

How happy, when life is always lucky and have good luck, never shit, everything runs smoothly as if no obstacle, maybe there would be no complaints, lamentations, moans lara sorrow or suffering in this life, but not so as people sometimes faced with the fact that , no living person is always lucky forever means always smooth in achieving its objectives, in realizing the hopes, the cata-reaching goals, achieve happiness, so too in love sometimes faced with the failure of love.
 For that perhaps this article can be a reflection of love in the face of failure.
Okay this paper, I begin with the word teen.

Teens Who? According to Freud, as in child psychology books written by Louise Nuryanti, S. Psi, M. Si, Psychologist. Whereas, in the psycho-sexual stages of development including the stages of adolescence Genital, Genital Stage (puberty) beginning at the age of puberty until the adult entering the age of 13 years, 14 years to 20 years old at this stage the focus of energy back ke area genitals and individuals interested in starting a relationship with friends of different gender. According to Erikson in the stage of social development into the 5th stage: the stage and repudiation vs. identity. Identity diffusion (identity vs. identity fuzziness) explained during the fifth stage of psychosocial crisis, adolescent (about age 13 or 14 to age about 20 years) tried mencari answer to the question about who I am? with a satisfactory answer and happy. However, there are some teenagers who are confused in the search for her identity. For example those who are rejected by the family of families, children living in families where the father is busy himself with work, the mother was busy with work, or other activity that the child may feel less affection.
Erikson believes that when individuals work through early adolescence, self maturity is reached. Adolescents begin to look for a model (someone who can serve as an example or role model who became an idol) and gradually develop the ideal values ​​for life. Adolescents who experience difficulty or confusion in finding her identity or identity means having obstacles, distractions and obstacles in psycology example of a teenager who is not accepted within a group sepermainan will certainly feel disappointed, short-bodied teenagers who would probably feel inferior, or otherwise there Another teenager who just feel super, so teenagers will have problems of emotional imbalance, with the emergence of a sense of turmoil like the feeling of lack of confidence, low self-esteem, frustration, despair, blame themselves, not content to accept themselves, morose, jour, often isolate themselves, it's easy to think negative, the emergence of negative emotions.
What is emotion? According to Roger, Daniel S. In the book "Wonders of human emotion" (Quantum Emotion for smart life): emotion is the experience of feeling, emotion - emotion that can be positive, but can also be negative, positive emotions produce feelings - such a pleasant feeling of pride, feeling hopeless, feeling relieved alin-and other positive emotions will result in something good also in a relationship a good relationship with other people with friends of both men and women can build closeness. While his negative emotions such as anger, frustration, despair, low self-produced hard feelings that make little chance to build or establish relationships.
In adolescence individuals began to be interested with friends of different sexes, at this time adolescents begin to recognize love, want love and beloved in this period adolescents experiencing puppy love and romantic love.
In a joke beetle said: wow that is too much it can suck the nectar drunk yes. The butterfly replied carelessly "when drunk love"?
Beetle spontaneously replied "if you make love with a butterfly might be more drunk? a lot of movies, soap operas, drama, love-themed songs.
What is Love? seen from the range of emotions perhaps into the positive emotions of love, before we know thoroughly about love, maybe love can be likened to a tetutup cloudy like a month, or the sun is covered in fog, or a girl who had her face veiled, or closed window blinds, all not clear, for to know it is necessary for the lid revealed that love becomes clear.
When you hear the word love feels so good to hear that word, beautiful tersa to perceived, because it contains the value of beauty, loyalty, honesty, heart, romance, and expectation.
The word love perhaps akin to the word love (english), Sofia (latin) love, romance, love, love, love, tresno, infatuated, kayungyun.
Love in a book by Julius Chandra Rational Love, love is a feeling of fall in love, lovelorn, memendam sense and so obvious that the feeling is directed at a specific person but also love the word used to describe the joy or fondness of the objects or ideas, for example: natural love , love democracy, freedom love, love peace.
According to Drs. Sulkan Yasin and Drs. Sunarto Harsoyo in Indonesia practical popular dictionary: Love is a feeling of love, love, feeling of belonging, was always longing, feel serving others.
According to WJS Purwodarminto in Indonesian dictionary, love is love, true love, the love between a man - male and female. For example:
My father and my mother loves us as his children.
 Actually he does not love him but only wanted his money.
The more oppressed increasingly felt how his love for independence.
Feelings - feeling anything that arises in love? if there is detailed enough admiration, gentleness, respect (responses), attention, friends desire, passion, sense of aggression, responsibility, loyalty, intimacy and other vibration-lain.yang gives rise to feelings, heart murmur, palpitation. There is a love which also involves all the feelings or some feeling. According to this definition of love is not confined to relations between men and women
What is the emblem or symbol, a sign of love? Symbol of love, among others: tulisan form of poetry, songs of love, symbol of the heart, a heart pierced by an arrow right in the middle, a flower eg a rose, a beautiful bouquet, cake (at the time birthday), cendramata, books, jewelry such as rings, necklaces, caress, caress, kiss, kiss, hug and many more.
In relation to love each individual involved tentunnya expect love signs love tersebut.Dalam process to get the love of a woman more passive and will wait patiently until the couple revealed his love for instance by saying:
"I love you" a word that was revealed this stuff enough times to make glad or happy because it has obtained the certainty although temporary. While a man may be more aggressive in order to seduce women. Before the love they revealed they may equally restless, they feel that they are not good eating and tidurpun not soundly, feeling long wanted to see.
Is the power of love? Love has tremendous power, among others
Creating happy, creating a sense of peace, evoking the spirit of life, love is kind does not seek its own, If there is love in every heart there is certainly no act of violence, the emphasis to the other, there is no corruption by officials who cause the suffering of the people. Love does not demand, love gives freedom for memilih.Cinta willing sacrifice.
Love is not without risk, every person who has love to be prepared with all the risks it causes. Someone who rejected his love, ignored her love, broken love usually will experience strong emotions, emotions that arise tend to be negative for instance feel ashamed, disappointed, low self-esteem, lack of confidence, despair, heartbreak, depression (mental distress), hurting yourself, seeking escape, in this case someone is having problems kejiwaan.Setiap no problems should be addressed as early as possible and how to address those problems.
When facing the problem we need to respond with clear thinking that the essence of Love is a gift from the Supreme Love. So its sacred or holy. When an acronym made goods times Love is the most beautiful nan sincere outpouring of grace from God. Therefore return kepadaNya.dengan ways:
Please pray for guidance, calm heart, Think of the good (positive thinking), look for lessons from each event, to think clearly and rationally to find the best way, berprinsiplah that experience is the best teacher,
Find love rational.
Love Is Rational? If I love you, I should not just satisfy your taste it, encouraging you to make you happy moment or superficially. I will devote my efforts to make you enthusiastic, passionate about everything I had. Nothing is exciting me from seeing the light eyes full of hope that you send out. As if you have found the path your life and you're able to face the obstacles with great steadiness and maturity.

Written by

T. Sutondo

MEMBUKA RAHASIA CINTA

Betapa bahagianya, bila hidup selalu mujur dan mendapatkan keberuntungan, tidak pernah sial, segalanya berjalan mulus seolah tanpa rintangan, mungkin tidak akan ada keluhan, ratapan, rintihan duka lara atau penderitaan dalam menjalani hidup ini, namun tidaklah demikian sebagai manusia kadang dihadapkan pada kenyataan bahwa , tidak selamanya orang hidup selalu mujur artinya selalu mulus dalam mencapai tujuan, dalam mewujudkan harapan, dalam mencapai cata-cita, dalam meraih kebahagiaan, demikian pula dalam hal percintaan kadang dihadapkan pada kegagalan cinta.

 Untuk itu barangkali tulisan ini dapat merupakan renungan dalam menghadapi kegagalan cinta.

            Baiklah  tulisan ini saya mulai dengan  kata remaja.

            Siapakah Remaja ? Menurut Freud sebagaimana dalam buku psikologi anak yang ditulis oleh Lusi Nuryanti, S.Psi, M.Si, Psikolog. Bahwa, dalam tahap perkembangan psiko-seksual termasuk dalam tahap Genital yaitu masa remaja, Tahap Genital ( masa remaja ) pada usia awal masa puber sampai dengan memasuki dewasa yaitu umur 13 tahun, 14 tahun sampai 20 tahun pada tahap ini fokus energi kembali kearea alat kelamin dan individu mulai tertarik untuk menjalin hubungan dengan teman yang berbeda jenis kelaminnya. Menurut Erikson dalam tahap perkembangan sosial masuk tahap ke 5 : yaitu tahap identity and repudiation  vs. Identity diffusion ( identitas vs kekaburan identitas ) menjelaskan selama krisis psikososial tahap kelima, remaja ( sekitar usia 13 atau 14 sampai usia sekitar 20 tahun ) berusaha meencari jawaban atas pertanyaan tentang siapa AKU ? dengan jawaban yang memuaskan dan membahagiakan. Namun, ada sebagian remaja yang mengalami kebingungan dalam mencari identitas dirinya. Misalnya mereka yang ditolak oleh keluarga keluarga, anak yang hidup dalam keluarga dimana ayah  sibuk sendiri dengan pekerjaan, ibu sibuk dengan pekerjaan, atau kesibukan yang lain sehingga anak merasa kurang kasih sayang.

            Erikson percaya bahwa ketika individu berhasil melalui masa remaja awal, kematangan diri tercapai. Remaja mulai mencari model ( seseorang yang dapat dijadikan contoh atau teladan yang menjadi idola ) dan secara bertahap mengembangkan nilai-nilai ideal bagi kehidupannya.  Remaja yang mengalami kesulitan atau kebingungan dalam menemukan identitas dirinya atau jati diri berarti mengalami hambatan, gangguan dan rintangan secara psycology misalnya seorang remaja yang tidak diterima dalam suatu kelompok sepermainan tentunya akan merasa kecewa, remaja yang bertubuh pendek barangkali akan merasa rendah diri, atau sebaliknya ada remaja lain yang justru merasa super, remaja yang demikian akan mengalami masalah adanya ketidak seimbangan emosional, dengan timbulnya gejolak rasa seperti perasaan kurang percaya diri, rendah diri, frustasi, putus asa, menyalahkan diri sendiri, tidak puas menerima diri, murung, sedik, sering mengasingkan diri, mudah berfikir negatif, munculnya emosi-emosi negatif.

            Apakah emosi ? Menurut Roger, Daniel S. Dalam buku “ Keajaiban emosi manusia „ ( Quantum Emotion for smart life ) : emosi merupakan pengalaman rasa, emosi – emosi itu bisa positif, tetapi bisa juga negatif, emosi positif menghasilkan perasaan – perasaan yang menyenangkan misalnya rasa bangga, merasa punya harapan, merasa lega dan alin-lain , emosi positif akan menghasilkan sesuatu yang baik pula dalam menjalin hubungan hubungan dengan orang lain baik dengan teman pria maupun wanita bisa membangun kedekatan. Sedangkan emosi negatif misal nya perasaan marah, frustasi, putus asa, rendah diri menghasilkan perasaan susah yang membuat kecil kemungkinan untuk membangun atau menjalin kedekatan hubungan.

            Pada masa remaja individu mulai tertarik dengan teman yang berbeda jenis kelaminnya,  pada masa ini remaja mulai mengenal cinta, ingin mencinta dan dicinta pada masa ini remaja  mengalami cinta monyet, kemudian cinta romantis.

            Dalam suatu canda kumbang berkata : wah kalau terlalu banyak menghisap madu bunga ternyata bisa mabuk ya. Kupu-kupu menjawab asal-asalan  „ kalau mabuk cinta „?

Secara spontan kumbang menjawab „ kalau bercinta dengan kupu-kupu mungkin tambah mabuk ? banyak film, sinetron , drama,  lagu bertemakan cinta.

            Apakah Cinta ? dilihat dari macam emosi barang kali cinta masuk dalam emosi positif, sebelum kita mengetahui dengan seksama tentang cinta, barangkali cinta dapat diibaratkan bagai bulan yang tetutup mendung, atau matahari yang berselimutkan kabut, atau seorang gadis yang mukanya bercadar, atau jendela yang tertutup tirai, semua belum jelas, untuk dapat mengetahuinya maka perlu disingkapkan penutupnya agar cinta itu menjadi jelas.

            Bila mendengar kata cinta terasa sekali bahwa kata itu enak didengar, tersa indah untuk dirasa, karena mengandung nilai keindahan, kesetiaan, kejujuran hati, kemesraan, dan harapan.

            Kata cinta barangkali dapat disepadankan dengan kata love ( bahasa inggris ), sofia ( bahasa latin ) kasih, asmara, sayang, senang, suka, tresno, gandrung, kayungyun.

            Cinta menurut Julius Chandra dalam buku Cinta Rasional, cinta adalah perasaan jatuh hati, mabuk kepayang, memendan rasa dan sebagainya yang jelas bahwa perasaan itu ditujukan pada orang tertentu tetapi kata cinta juga dipakai untuk menggambarkan kesukaan atau kegandrungan terhadap benda atau ide, misalnya : cinta alam, cinta demokrasi, cinta kemerdekaan, cinta perdamaian.

            Menurut Drs. Sulkan Yasin dan Drs. Sunarto Harsoyo dalam kamus Indonesia praktis populer : Cinta adalah  rasa menyenangi, mengasihi, merasa ikut memiliki, merasa selalu rindu, merasa mengabdi pada orang lain.

            Menurut WJS Purwodarminto dalam kamus bahasa Indonesia , cinta adalah suka sekali, sayang benar, kasih sekali antara laki – laki dan perempuan. Misalnya :

Ayah dan ibuku mencintai kami sebagai anak-anaknya.

 Sebenarnya dia tidak cinta kepada laki-laki itu tetapi hanya menginginkan hartanya.

Makin ditindas makin terasa betapa cintanya akan kemerdekaan.

            Perasaan – perasaan apa saja yang timbul dalam cinta ? kalau dirinci cukup banyak ada rasa kagum,  kelembutan, respek ( tanggapan ) , perhatian, keinginan bersahabat, berahi , rasa agresif , tanggungjawab, kesetiaan, kemesraan dan lain-lain.yang mengakibatkan timbulnya getaran perasaan , desiran hati, debaran jantung. Ada cinta yang sekaligus melibatkan semua perasaan  atau sebagian perasaan. Menurut pengertian ini cinta tidak hanya terbatas pada hubungan antara pria dan wanita

            Apakah lambang atau simbol, tanda dari cinta ?lambang dari cinta antara lain : tilisan berbentuk puisi, lagu cinta ,simbul hati, gambar hati yang tertusuk anak panah tepat ditengah, sekuntum bunga misalnya bunga mawar, seikat bunga yang indah, kue tart ( pada saat ulang tahun ), cendramata, buku,  perhiasan misalnya cincin, kalung, belaian, usapan, kecupan, ciuman, pelukan dan masih banyak lagi.

            Dalam hubungan saling mencinta tentunnya tiap individu yang terlibat cinta mengharapkan adanya tanda-tanda cinta tersebut.Dalam proses untuk mendapatkan cinta seorang wanita lebih bersifat pasif dan akan menunggu dengan sabar sampai dengan pasangan mengungkapkan perasaan cintanya misalnya dengan berkata :

” Aku mencintaimu ” kata yang terungkap ini barang kali cukup membuat lega atau bahagia karena telah memperoleh kepastian walau sifatnya sementara. Sedangkan seorang pria mungkin lebih bersifat agresif untuk dapat memikat hati wanita. Sebelum cinta mereka terungkap mungkin mereka sama-sama resah, mereka mereka merasa bahwa makan tidak enak dan tidurpun tidak nyenyak, merasa rindu ingin bertemu.

            Apakah kekuatan cinta ? Cinta mempunyai kekuatan yang luar biasa antara lain

Membuat bahagia, menciptakan rasa damai,membangkitkan semangat hidup,cinta itu murah hati tidak mencari keuntungan diri sendiri, Jika ada cinta kasih dalam hati setiap orang niscaya tidak ada tindak kekerasan, penekanan kepada yang lain, tidak ada korupsi oleh pejabat yang mengakibatkan penderitaan rakyat.Cinta tidak menuntut, cinta memberi kebebasan untuk memilih.Cinta mau berkurban.

            Cinta bukan tanpa resiko, Setiap orang yang mengalami cinta  harus siap dengan segala resiko yang ditimbulkannya. Seseorang yang ditolak cintanya, diabaikan cintanya, putus cinta biasanya akan mengalami gejolak emosi, emosi yang muncul cenderung negatif misalnya merasa malu, kecewa, rendah diri, kurang percaya diri, putus asa, patah hati, depresi ( tekanan mental ) , menyakiti diri sendiri, mencari pelarian diri, dalam hal ini seseorang mengalami masalah kejiwaan.Setiap ada masalah sebaiknya diatasi sedini mungkin dan bagaimana menyikapi masalah tersebut.

            Bila menghadapi masalah tersebut kita perlu menyikapinya dengan berfikir jernih bahwa pada hakekatnya Cinta adalah anugrah dari yang Maha Cinta . Sehingga sifatnya sakral atau suci. Bila dibuat akronim barang kali Cinta adalah Curahan anugrah terindah nan tulus dari Allah . Oleh karena itu kembalikanlah kepadaNya.dengan cara :

Berdoa untuk mohon petunjuk, tenangkan hati, berfikirlah yang baik-baik ( positif thinking ) , mencari hikmah dari setiap peristiwa, berfikir jernih dan rasional untuk menemukan jalan terbaik, berprinsiplah bahwa pengalaman adalah guru yang paling baik,

Temukan cinta rasional.

            Apakah Cinta Rasional ? Kalau aku mencintaimu, aku tidak boleh sekedar memenuhi seleramu saja, menggembirakan engkau untuk sesaat saja atau membuatmu senang secara dangkal. Aku akan mencurahkan usahaku untuk membuatmu antusias, bergairah dengan segala apa yang kumiliki. Tidak ada yang menggembirakan aku dari pada melihat sinar mata penuh harapan yang kau pancarkan. Seolah-olah kau telah menemukan jalan hidupmu dan kau sanggup menghadapi berbagai rintangan dengan penuh kemantapan dan kematangan.

                                                                                    Ditulis oleh

                                                                                    T. Sutondo