OPEN SECRET LOVE
How happy, when life is always lucky and have good luck, never shit, everything runs smoothly as if no obstacle, maybe there would be no complaints, lamentations, moans lara sorrow or suffering in this life, but not so as people sometimes faced with the fact that , no living person is always lucky forever means always smooth in achieving its objectives, in realizing the hopes, the cata-reaching goals, achieve happiness, so too in love sometimes faced with the failure of love.
For that perhaps this article can be a reflection of love in the face of failure.
Okay this paper, I begin with the word teen.
Teens Who? According to Freud, as in child psychology books written by Louise Nuryanti, S. Psi, M. Si, Psychologist. Whereas, in the psycho-sexual stages of development including the stages of adolescence Genital, Genital Stage (puberty) beginning at the age of puberty until the adult entering the age of 13 years, 14 years to 20 years old at this stage the focus of energy back ke area genitals and individuals interested in starting a relationship with friends of different gender. According to Erikson in the stage of social development into the 5th stage: the stage and repudiation vs. identity. Identity diffusion (identity vs. identity fuzziness) explained during the fifth stage of psychosocial crisis, adolescent (about age 13 or 14 to age about 20 years) tried mencari answer to the question about who I am? with a satisfactory answer and happy. However, there are some teenagers who are confused in the search for her identity. For example those who are rejected by the family of families, children living in families where the father is busy himself with work, the mother was busy with work, or other activity that the child may feel less affection.
Erikson believes that when individuals work through early adolescence, self maturity is reached. Adolescents begin to look for a model (someone who can serve as an example or role model who became an idol) and gradually develop the ideal values for life. Adolescents who experience difficulty or confusion in finding her identity or identity means having obstacles, distractions and obstacles in psycology example of a teenager who is not accepted within a group sepermainan will certainly feel disappointed, short-bodied teenagers who would probably feel inferior, or otherwise there Another teenager who just feel super, so teenagers will have problems of emotional imbalance, with the emergence of a sense of turmoil like the feeling of lack of confidence, low self-esteem, frustration, despair, blame themselves, not content to accept themselves, morose, jour, often isolate themselves, it's easy to think negative, the emergence of negative emotions.
What is emotion? According to Roger, Daniel S. In the book "Wonders of human emotion" (Quantum Emotion for smart life): emotion is the experience of feeling, emotion - emotion that can be positive, but can also be negative, positive emotions produce feelings - such a pleasant feeling of pride, feeling hopeless, feeling relieved alin-and other positive emotions will result in something good also in a relationship a good relationship with other people with friends of both men and women can build closeness. While his negative emotions such as anger, frustration, despair, low self-produced hard feelings that make little chance to build or establish relationships.
In adolescence individuals began to be interested with friends of different sexes, at this time adolescents begin to recognize love, want love and beloved in this period adolescents experiencing puppy love and romantic love.
In a joke beetle said: wow that is too much it can suck the nectar drunk yes. The butterfly replied carelessly "when drunk love"?
Beetle spontaneously replied "if you make love with a butterfly might be more drunk? a lot of movies, soap operas, drama, love-themed songs.
What is Love? seen from the range of emotions perhaps into the positive emotions of love, before we know thoroughly about love, maybe love can be likened to a tetutup cloudy like a month, or the sun is covered in fog, or a girl who had her face veiled, or closed window blinds, all not clear, for to know it is necessary for the lid revealed that love becomes clear.
When you hear the word love feels so good to hear that word, beautiful tersa to perceived, because it contains the value of beauty, loyalty, honesty, heart, romance, and expectation.
The word love perhaps akin to the word love (english), Sofia (latin) love, romance, love, love, love, tresno, infatuated, kayungyun.
Love in a book by Julius Chandra Rational Love, love is a feeling of fall in love, lovelorn, memendam sense and so obvious that the feeling is directed at a specific person but also love the word used to describe the joy or fondness of the objects or ideas, for example: natural love , love democracy, freedom love, love peace.
According to Drs. Sulkan Yasin and Drs. Sunarto Harsoyo in Indonesia practical popular dictionary: Love is a feeling of love, love, feeling of belonging, was always longing, feel serving others.
According to WJS Purwodarminto in Indonesian dictionary, love is love, true love, the love between a man - male and female. For example:
My father and my mother loves us as his children.
Actually he does not love him but only wanted his money.
The more oppressed increasingly felt how his love for independence.
Feelings - feeling anything that arises in love? if there is detailed enough admiration, gentleness, respect (responses), attention, friends desire, passion, sense of aggression, responsibility, loyalty, intimacy and other vibration-lain.yang gives rise to feelings, heart murmur, palpitation. There is a love which also involves all the feelings or some feeling. According to this definition of love is not confined to relations between men and women
What is the emblem or symbol, a sign of love? Symbol of love, among others: tulisan form of poetry, songs of love, symbol of the heart, a heart pierced by an arrow right in the middle, a flower eg a rose, a beautiful bouquet, cake (at the time birthday), cendramata, books, jewelry such as rings, necklaces, caress, caress, kiss, kiss, hug and many more.
In relation to love each individual involved tentunnya expect love signs love tersebut.Dalam process to get the love of a woman more passive and will wait patiently until the couple revealed his love for instance by saying:
"I love you" a word that was revealed this stuff enough times to make glad or happy because it has obtained the certainty although temporary. While a man may be more aggressive in order to seduce women. Before the love they revealed they may equally restless, they feel that they are not good eating and tidurpun not soundly, feeling long wanted to see.
Is the power of love? Love has tremendous power, among others
Creating happy, creating a sense of peace, evoking the spirit of life, love is kind does not seek its own, If there is love in every heart there is certainly no act of violence, the emphasis to the other, there is no corruption by officials who cause the suffering of the people. Love does not demand, love gives freedom for memilih.Cinta willing sacrifice.
Love is not without risk, every person who has love to be prepared with all the risks it causes. Someone who rejected his love, ignored her love, broken love usually will experience strong emotions, emotions that arise tend to be negative for instance feel ashamed, disappointed, low self-esteem, lack of confidence, despair, heartbreak, depression (mental distress), hurting yourself, seeking escape, in this case someone is having problems kejiwaan.Setiap no problems should be addressed as early as possible and how to address those problems.
When facing the problem we need to respond with clear thinking that the essence of Love is a gift from the Supreme Love. So its sacred or holy. When an acronym made goods times Love is the most beautiful nan sincere outpouring of grace from God. Therefore return kepadaNya.dengan ways:
Please pray for guidance, calm heart, Think of the good (positive thinking), look for lessons from each event, to think clearly and rationally to find the best way, berprinsiplah that experience is the best teacher,
Find love rational.
Love Is Rational? If I love you, I should not just satisfy your taste it, encouraging you to make you happy moment or superficially. I will devote my efforts to make you enthusiastic, passionate about everything I had. Nothing is exciting me from seeing the light eyes full of hope that you send out. As if you have found the path your life and you're able to face the obstacles with great steadiness and maturity.
Written by
T. Sutondo
How happy, when life is always lucky and have good luck, never shit, everything runs smoothly as if no obstacle, maybe there would be no complaints, lamentations, moans lara sorrow or suffering in this life, but not so as people sometimes faced with the fact that , no living person is always lucky forever means always smooth in achieving its objectives, in realizing the hopes, the cata-reaching goals, achieve happiness, so too in love sometimes faced with the failure of love.
For that perhaps this article can be a reflection of love in the face of failure.
Okay this paper, I begin with the word teen.
Teens Who? According to Freud, as in child psychology books written by Louise Nuryanti, S. Psi, M. Si, Psychologist. Whereas, in the psycho-sexual stages of development including the stages of adolescence Genital, Genital Stage (puberty) beginning at the age of puberty until the adult entering the age of 13 years, 14 years to 20 years old at this stage the focus of energy back ke area genitals and individuals interested in starting a relationship with friends of different gender. According to Erikson in the stage of social development into the 5th stage: the stage and repudiation vs. identity. Identity diffusion (identity vs. identity fuzziness) explained during the fifth stage of psychosocial crisis, adolescent (about age 13 or 14 to age about 20 years) tried mencari answer to the question about who I am? with a satisfactory answer and happy. However, there are some teenagers who are confused in the search for her identity. For example those who are rejected by the family of families, children living in families where the father is busy himself with work, the mother was busy with work, or other activity that the child may feel less affection.
Erikson believes that when individuals work through early adolescence, self maturity is reached. Adolescents begin to look for a model (someone who can serve as an example or role model who became an idol) and gradually develop the ideal values for life. Adolescents who experience difficulty or confusion in finding her identity or identity means having obstacles, distractions and obstacles in psycology example of a teenager who is not accepted within a group sepermainan will certainly feel disappointed, short-bodied teenagers who would probably feel inferior, or otherwise there Another teenager who just feel super, so teenagers will have problems of emotional imbalance, with the emergence of a sense of turmoil like the feeling of lack of confidence, low self-esteem, frustration, despair, blame themselves, not content to accept themselves, morose, jour, often isolate themselves, it's easy to think negative, the emergence of negative emotions.
What is emotion? According to Roger, Daniel S. In the book "Wonders of human emotion" (Quantum Emotion for smart life): emotion is the experience of feeling, emotion - emotion that can be positive, but can also be negative, positive emotions produce feelings - such a pleasant feeling of pride, feeling hopeless, feeling relieved alin-and other positive emotions will result in something good also in a relationship a good relationship with other people with friends of both men and women can build closeness. While his negative emotions such as anger, frustration, despair, low self-produced hard feelings that make little chance to build or establish relationships.
In adolescence individuals began to be interested with friends of different sexes, at this time adolescents begin to recognize love, want love and beloved in this period adolescents experiencing puppy love and romantic love.
In a joke beetle said: wow that is too much it can suck the nectar drunk yes. The butterfly replied carelessly "when drunk love"?
Beetle spontaneously replied "if you make love with a butterfly might be more drunk? a lot of movies, soap operas, drama, love-themed songs.
What is Love? seen from the range of emotions perhaps into the positive emotions of love, before we know thoroughly about love, maybe love can be likened to a tetutup cloudy like a month, or the sun is covered in fog, or a girl who had her face veiled, or closed window blinds, all not clear, for to know it is necessary for the lid revealed that love becomes clear.
When you hear the word love feels so good to hear that word, beautiful tersa to perceived, because it contains the value of beauty, loyalty, honesty, heart, romance, and expectation.
The word love perhaps akin to the word love (english), Sofia (latin) love, romance, love, love, love, tresno, infatuated, kayungyun.
Love in a book by Julius Chandra Rational Love, love is a feeling of fall in love, lovelorn, memendam sense and so obvious that the feeling is directed at a specific person but also love the word used to describe the joy or fondness of the objects or ideas, for example: natural love , love democracy, freedom love, love peace.
According to Drs. Sulkan Yasin and Drs. Sunarto Harsoyo in Indonesia practical popular dictionary: Love is a feeling of love, love, feeling of belonging, was always longing, feel serving others.
According to WJS Purwodarminto in Indonesian dictionary, love is love, true love, the love between a man - male and female. For example:
My father and my mother loves us as his children.
Actually he does not love him but only wanted his money.
The more oppressed increasingly felt how his love for independence.
Feelings - feeling anything that arises in love? if there is detailed enough admiration, gentleness, respect (responses), attention, friends desire, passion, sense of aggression, responsibility, loyalty, intimacy and other vibration-lain.yang gives rise to feelings, heart murmur, palpitation. There is a love which also involves all the feelings or some feeling. According to this definition of love is not confined to relations between men and women
What is the emblem or symbol, a sign of love? Symbol of love, among others: tulisan form of poetry, songs of love, symbol of the heart, a heart pierced by an arrow right in the middle, a flower eg a rose, a beautiful bouquet, cake (at the time birthday), cendramata, books, jewelry such as rings, necklaces, caress, caress, kiss, kiss, hug and many more.
In relation to love each individual involved tentunnya expect love signs love tersebut.Dalam process to get the love of a woman more passive and will wait patiently until the couple revealed his love for instance by saying:
"I love you" a word that was revealed this stuff enough times to make glad or happy because it has obtained the certainty although temporary. While a man may be more aggressive in order to seduce women. Before the love they revealed they may equally restless, they feel that they are not good eating and tidurpun not soundly, feeling long wanted to see.
Is the power of love? Love has tremendous power, among others
Creating happy, creating a sense of peace, evoking the spirit of life, love is kind does not seek its own, If there is love in every heart there is certainly no act of violence, the emphasis to the other, there is no corruption by officials who cause the suffering of the people. Love does not demand, love gives freedom for memilih.Cinta willing sacrifice.
Love is not without risk, every person who has love to be prepared with all the risks it causes. Someone who rejected his love, ignored her love, broken love usually will experience strong emotions, emotions that arise tend to be negative for instance feel ashamed, disappointed, low self-esteem, lack of confidence, despair, heartbreak, depression (mental distress), hurting yourself, seeking escape, in this case someone is having problems kejiwaan.Setiap no problems should be addressed as early as possible and how to address those problems.
When facing the problem we need to respond with clear thinking that the essence of Love is a gift from the Supreme Love. So its sacred or holy. When an acronym made goods times Love is the most beautiful nan sincere outpouring of grace from God. Therefore return kepadaNya.dengan ways:
Please pray for guidance, calm heart, Think of the good (positive thinking), look for lessons from each event, to think clearly and rationally to find the best way, berprinsiplah that experience is the best teacher,
Find love rational.
Love Is Rational? If I love you, I should not just satisfy your taste it, encouraging you to make you happy moment or superficially. I will devote my efforts to make you enthusiastic, passionate about everything I had. Nothing is exciting me from seeing the light eyes full of hope that you send out. As if you have found the path your life and you're able to face the obstacles with great steadiness and maturity.
Written by
T. Sutondo
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